Both spouses usually need to agree to a sale, and they may no longer live at the property.
Investor play · Divorce
Divorce leads: a neutral, clean sale when two owners need to move on.
When a couple divorces, the house often has to be sold, and both owners usually want it done quickly and fairly. Spur helps you reach both parties at their own addresses with a neutral, respectful letter offering a simple sale with a clear split.
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The problem
Divorce sales need a different approach.
Anything that sounds like taking advantage, or taking sides, ends the conversation.
A sale may need to fit a settlement or court order. Your process has to work with that.
How it works
From list to mailbox in one workflow.
Five steps from court filing to a neutral offer for both owners.

See it in Spur
A divorce lead list in Spur
Sample properties from public divorce filings, with both owners enriched. Names are partly masked.
- Dan & Ivy M.1830 Arlington AveBoth mailed separately58% equity
- Chris & Pam W.4410 Kenny RdOne owner moved out46% equity
- Tom & Lia R.220 E Lincoln StBoth mailed separately71% equity
- Greg & Sue H.3901 Reed RdOne owner out of state52% equity
- Ken & Dee P.805 Neil AveBoth mailed separately64% equity
AI draft for Dan M. · 1830 Arlington Ave
Dear Dan,
I'm a local home buyer in Columbus, and I'm writing about the home at 1830 Arlington Avenue. When a home needs to be sold as part of a major life change, most people want the process to be quick, fair, and simple.
I buy homes as-is, so there are no repairs, showings, or open houses. We can close on a date that fits your timeline or settlement, and the proceeds are handled by a neutral title company, which pays out according to your agreement.
This same letter has been sent to each owner of the property. If it would help, scan the code or call me, and feel free to share it with your attorney.
Ana Reyes · (614) 555-0119
Sample data for illustration. Your results depend on your market and filters.
Playbook
How to work divorce leads respectfully
In a divorce, the family home is often the largest shared asset, and many couples decide or are ordered to sell it. Both parties usually want a sale that's fast, fair, and free of extra conflict, which is exactly what a clean as-is purchase can offer.
Divorce filings are public court records in many counties, though access rules vary. Match filings to property records to find jointly owned homes, then enrich each party so both can be reached at their current address. One spouse has often moved out.
Neutrality is everything. Send each owner the same letter, say so in the letter, and never suggest one party should push the other. Explain how a neutral title company handles payoff and splits proceeds according to their agreement. Encourage them to share the letter with their attorneys.
Respect the process. A sale may need both signatures, an attorney's review, or court approval. Be patient, keep the tone gentle, and make it easy for anyone to ask you to stop.
One clean sale covers the year.
- Spur Team: $588/yr billed annually
- 100 homes × 2 owners × 2 letters = 400 letters at $1.39 = $556
- One $15,000 deal = 25× your subscription
Example math. Outcomes depend on both parties and their settlement. Run your own numbers →
One tool, not four
Spur vs. the usual divorce lead workflow
FAQ
Divorce lead questions
Where do divorce leads come from?
Public divorce filings in county court records, where available. Upload them to Spur and match them to property records.
Should I contact both spouses?
Yes, with the same letter. Both owners usually have to agree to a sale, and treating them equally builds trust.
Can a house be sold during a divorce?
Often, but it may require both owners' signatures, attorney involvement, or court approval. Work with their attorneys and timeline.
How are proceeds split?
A neutral title company pays off any loan and distributes the proceeds according to the parties' agreement or court order.
Is it appropriate to mail divorcing owners?
It can be, if the letter is neutral, respectful, and easy to opt out of. Many investors also partner with family law attorneys.
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